5 Tips To Ensure A Healthy Relationship With Your Partner

| February 13 , 2018 , 18:46 IST

If you have relied on movies and TV to learn about love, you’d think it’s all about men making swoony declarations. But in real life, love’s not really like that!

Love is knowing a person’s face, learning how their eyes flash when they’re happy, how they like to be touched when they’re sad or happy or turned on and how to get through conflict together.

And regardless of whether you’re married or newly committed, if you’ve got a good man/woman to love, respecting each other should be the first aim of your relationship.

Here are some tips to keep your relationship strong and going without any major hitches:

  • Compliment her

Where did we get the notion from that only women like to be told they look good, smell good, are hot, smart or sexy? Both male and female are supposed to be complimented on things including their good fashion sense and haircut etc.

It’s easy, tell your partner about their good qualities when you feel like it. Let him know how much you love smelling his neck when you hug.

  • Make time for things to get hot in the bedroom

People in India mostly hesitate when it comes to making love in the bedroom, but they should never forget that personal satisfaction is the ultimate goal of an individual. Cultivating desires ensure a healthy and lasting relationship which fills the existing gaps and barriers in between.

If it’s challenging to get into sex try to arouse your partner and get started with the foreplay.

  • Communicate and be supportive

Lack of communication often leads a relationship to ruins, so never-ever think of being silent on your part, be mature enough to talk about the situation and why it happened. It will help both the partners to get rid of their respective weight.

It’s good to separate yourself sometimes, but take this into consideration that leaving your partner alone for a long period of time or leaving them when he/she need you the most can lead your partner to leave you forever. So, try being supportive in every situation, show him/her how much you care about each other and your relationship.

  • Take care of your appearance.

Yes! Appearance matters, studies have shown that initially, it’s the appearance seeing what people get attracted to each other.

Think about when you first met your partner. Did you have walked around in stained sweatpants and without brushing your teeth? No, you went looking decent and classy. So, try to groom yourself timely and dress decently to ensure/maintain a good image of your’s in your partner’s mind.

  • Be honest with him.

No boyfriend, girlfriend or anyone else in a relationship is going to be truly happy if they don’t feel like they are trusted. Being honest, even when it is difficult, is one of the best ways to show trust.

Sometimes the truth does hurt and it may cause him distress when you speak honestly. But beneath that pain will be an appreciation that you trusted him enough, to be honest with him.

Don't put it off indefinitely, but do wait for a time when you are both calm and can speak without distractions. Choose your words carefully and just remember that if a relationship is not built on trust and honesty, it’s not going to last.